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Share the Wealth of Health Are you a follower of the grain? Have you been searching for health and happiness and found it? Still searching? Come share your experiences with other macro followers.

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Old 01-20-2018, 08:37 PM   #1
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Default "You Are Not as Powerless as You Think"

Just read this excerpt from a popular career manual in a section (with the above title) about how the employee has just as much say in the job they're hired for as the employer. The following illustration applies to healthy living as well, and provided a reminder I needed:

"Some years ago, when I was doing a lot of counseling, not just about careers, a friend of mine asked me if I would be willing to see someone he knew. Her name was Mary. She had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, or MS. She had been to a wide range of medical specialists: neurologist, psychologist, internist, you name it. They all had declared there was nothing they could do to help her with the disease. My friend said, "Would you see her?" "Sure," I said, "but I'm not sure there's anything I can do."

The next day my friend brought her over. She walked very stiffly up the front sidewalk, came in, sat down, and after exchanging a few pleasantries, I got down to business. "Mary," I said, "what is multiple sclerosis?"

"I don't know," she said, in a dull, emotionless voice. "Well then," I said, "that makes us even; because I don't know, either. But here's what I propose. I'm sure that a huge proportion of whatever MS is, is out of your control. There's nothing you can do about it. But that proportion can't be 100%. There's got to be some proportion - let's say it's even just 2% or 5% - that is within your control. We could work on that. Do you want to begin that journey?" She said yes. Over the next few weeks she improved, and finally was free of all symptoms (typical of the disease for a spell, but this lasted for a very long time), and now - free of all stiffness - she became a model on 57th Street in New York City.

So it is, that in any situation you find yourself, no matter how overwhelmed you may feel, no matter how much you may feel you're at the mercy of huge forces that are beyond your control, some part of it is within your control: maybe 2%, 5%, who knows? There is always something you can work on. Something that is within your power. And often, changing that little bit results in changing a whole lot. Maybe not as dramatic a change as with Mary; but change nonetheless."

- Richard N. Bolles, What Color is Your Parachute?
"The tantalizing discomfort of perplexity is what inspires otherwise ordinary men and women to extraordinary feats of ingenuity and creativity; nothing quite focuses the mind like dissonant details awaiting harmonious resolution."
- Brian Greene

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Old 01-21-2018, 02:26 PM   #2
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Default Re: "You Are Not as Powerless as You Think"

Very wise words indeed in this article. I'm a strong believer of this as well.
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Old 01-22-2018, 10:58 PM   #3
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Default Re: "You Are Not as Powerless as You Think"

It is. It's focusing on the positive and not the negative.

Good aspirations for all of us.

Now, if I could only control 2% of the weather. (Just kidding).
"If you don't know what to do, do nothing. If you don't know what to eat, eat nothing." My favorite quote. If only I can get this in writing. To be fair, the discussion that preceded the quote was about not settling because you don't like your choices. You should find a good choice for you.

"Anybody who goes to bed the same day they got up is a quitter."
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